Monday, December 15, 2008

Counselor: When To See A Counselor?



When to See A Counselor, Doctor or Psychiatrist

"Do I need to seek counseling help?" or "What counselor should I contact?" Sometimes it’s a difficult decision to make. You may be asking, “Does my child need to see a counselor or a doctor.” This article will help you make that decision. There’s a difference between all of these professional services that these individuals provide. The differences are listed below.

School Counselor
  • Your child’s teacher(s) request that you speak with a school counselor.
  • Your child is receiving failing grades.
  • Your child continually reports that he or she is unhappy in school.
  • Your child is not willing to talk to you.
  • You see a big change in your child’s behavior and academic performance.
  • There is a death in the family. This may include a pet.
  • You are concerned that your child is using drugs or chemicals.
  • You are concerned that your child is hanging around other children who are getting into trouble.
  • A family change, divorce that may affect school performance.

Psychologist or Clinic Counselor (Outside of School)
  • Your child talks, writes notes or you feel may try to hurt him or herself.
  • Your child runs away from home.
  • Your child continues to show anger or withdrawal behavior
  • Your child continues to challenge your authority at home and breaks rules that place the child in unsafe situations. (Examples: steals, uses physical force (hits), and continually lies)
  • A family change or death that may about an on-going emotional reaction.
  • Your child continually has sibling rivalries that do not end after you implement sibling rivalry strategies for change.

Medical Doctor or Psychiatrist
  • Your child attempts suicide.
  • Your child overdoses or misuses chemicals or drugs.
  • Your child is cutting or demonstrating self-injuring behaviors.
  • Your child continually reports that he or she is ill when you feel the child is well.
  • Your child has any physical or emotional signs that you feel are unusual.

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